{"id":14810,"date":"2021-04-29T13:08:02","date_gmt":"2021-04-29T18:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pornvalleymedia.net\/?p=14810"},"modified":"2021-04-29T13:08:02","modified_gmt":"2021-04-29T18:08:02","slug":"arousr-explores-the-mindset-of-angry-chat-hosts-in-new-blog-post-shut-up-and-pay-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pornvalleymedia.net\/?p=14810","title":{"rendered":"Arousr Explores the Mindset of Angry Chat Hosts in New Blog Post, \u2018Shut Up and Pay Me\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chicago &#8211; Adult sexting site Arousr (<a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/arousr.com\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1619805909288000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEZ7rzRFILWq202ScvUtMyII7mc5Q\">Arousr.com<\/a>) delves into the topic of Internet sex workers and their open animosity towards their clientele in a new\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/shut-up-and-pay-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/shut-up-and-pay-me\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1619805909288000&amp;usg=AFQjCNFAXWt4MW2Xj-leB79Nn1dQx_qR9w\">blog post<\/a>, \u2018Shut Up and Pay Me\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Arousr Social Media Manager FemmeFatale wrote the piece as a means to inspire discussion about \u201cbitter content creators who often treat customers like a walking ATM\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2026 seems that the attitude most of these content creators (both women\/men) uphold is that of the old guard. Also known as Stripper Logic\u2026 a train of thought that puts the performer in a hierarchy over their audience,\u201d write FemmeFatale. \u201cThey are no longer just a performer there to fulfill the client\u2019s needs in a business transaction. They are now somehow better than the audience that pays money to see them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She notes that \u201ccreators will find themselves overextending what their bodies can do or pushing their own physical boundaries just to make quick sales. The lack of planning, understanding of the adult industry as a whole, long-term strategy, and sometimes pure desperation for an ego boost, likes, and money all coagulate into a burnt-out performer before they have even hit their stride.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe long-term solution to the \u2018Shut up and pay me\u2019 attitude, the ego, the thirst trap photos just for likes or in hopes of making a single sale for the day is to concentrate more on connection. 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The long-term game we all need to be playing is empathy, regardless of what business you are in if you truly want to succeed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Read the article in full at\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/shut-up-and-pay-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/shut-up-and-pay-me\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1619805909288000&amp;usg=AFQjCNFAXWt4MW2Xj-leB79Nn1dQx_qR9w\">Arousr.com\/content\/shut-up-<wbr \/>and-pay-me<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ready to try Arousr? The token-based service offers new users 100 free credits in order to try out the service, and members only pay for the credits they use. Casual and discreet, Arousr is just a download away at\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/arousr.com&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1619805909288000&amp;usg=AFQjCNH8LYddDIa3oqnWwppN1wVedYox5w\">Arousr.com<\/a>. 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