Chicago – Samia Burton of TheSexualEssentials.com sat down with Drea & Lex of the Pour Minds podcast this past week, where they got down & dirty about the ins and outs of sexual compatibility, orgasms, blow jobs, squirting and how to create ecstasy through foreplay and communication.
The hands-on sex educator, who hosts educational workshops such as #MouthMasterClass, #DickRiding101 and #Masturbation&Squirting101, kicked off the episode, ‘Hibachi Titties’, with how to build an intense rapport with a partner to create satisfying sex.
“A lot of people think that sexual compatibility is just like the sex being good… sometimes our sex drives are different… sometimes the things you’re doing really turn you on but it’s not doing anything [for him].
“I came here with this bag full of toys, right? If you mostly fuck with butt plugs, it’s like you’re not really understanding me because you assume you want to fuck the same way I want to, and that’s not realistic… sometimes they’re not speaking your sexual love language.”
Burton also brought up the topic of arousal (“you should have foreplay for about eighteen minutes”), elevating excitement above desire (“just because you’re in desire mode does not mean you’re aroused”) and reaching orgasm (“if you’re not getting fucked well, it’s both of your faults”).
To hear the full episode of Pour Minds podcast with Samia Burton, go to PourMinds.com.
Visit TheSexualEssentials.com and email Samia Burton at Booking@thesexualessentials.
ABOUT SEXUAL ESSENTIALS:
Sexual Essentials is a movement to help people understand & embrace their sexuality, body and desires with the goal of giving them the tools to create a sex life that is consistently fulfilling. Created by sex educator and motivational speaker/workshop coach Samia Burton, the ‘100% Judgement-Free Zone’ offers informative, thought-provoking and interactive learning to boost not only personal knowledge but confidence in our sexual selves.
Burton takes an unconventional approach to sex-ed, thanks to her personalized workshops – the infamous #MouthMasterclass, #DickRiding101 and the Sex Conditioning Workout are among the most popular – that focus on building confidence in a bold, respectable way to help people take control of their sex lives by increasing pleasure, passion and the will to stop letting sexuality be the taboo and elephant in the room that no one wants to discuss.
The reassuring instructor, who noted to VoyageATL, that she’s been told that “I have a way of discussing sexual things in a way that people don’t feel embarrassed or awkward”, is a frequent guest contributor on health & wellness podcasts, and owes much of her success to her relaxed energy and ‘real-talk’ demeanor with clients. “I just wanted to create a safe place for people to learn because sexual pleasure is important.”